Kink Shaming

My Fellow Inmates,

Tonight I would like to talk about a subject that is a misunderstood and potentially lethal weapon in our community.

I speak of course on Kink Shaming.

For those of us who may not know, this is the practice of someone who had to come to terms with their own inner kink feels, playing the high school bully role and taking out the parts of their personal feels that don't sit well with them, upon another they feel has a lesser kink.

...and to you, my good Sir, let me just say, you are a spiteful motherfucker.

This post may hit a bit deeper than normal, because until you have a friend take their own life... End such a beautiful existence simply because someone else felt it their right to fuck with such a fragile balance in another mind....

I invite you to step back from your ego, your own personal id, for two seconds. Now, kids, analyze yourself. come on, do it,...

Take your time, I'll wait...

What do you see?

Perhaps a human that has some odd want to dress up as an animal to satiate an otherwise lost libido?

Bondage maybe?

Now lets take a look at how messed up this psychology is:

As Mammals, we all have one thing in common with our animal brethren: Fight or flight. Survival instinct. We are supposed to question the intents of other creatures. In the animal kingdom, paranoia is a trait of those that live full lives.

But we have been bred to be sheep. No different than the pets you keep at home. You feed them because they cant feed themselves, and as the property of our governments they also feed us when we cant be self sustaining, its called food stamps.

We have been fed the notion that this world is safe, this world is peaceful, and somehow billions of different head-spaces and thought processes can live in an "Its a small world" reality of coexistant harmony...

Well, Kids, this is the fucking Savannah, and sweetie, I hate to break it to you, but there be Hungry Lions out there.

Yet as with the animal kingdom we form our packs. We trust another who trusts a 3rd, and it creates a spiderweb of people that support each other due to similar traits, be it you have the same marking patterns as the other deer, or you like to be covered in cow hide while a hairy man shoves his dick up your pooper, and beats you with a dead possum while singing "Fair my god to thee".

Sexy right?

...back to bondage

Come 13 years of age your dick wakes up one day and due to whatever kind of early childhood trauma, says "Hi, I'm your erection. I demand you break all trust boundaries that you would otherwise never do, and put yourself in situations that could hypothetically result in your death... With humans you call friend, yet never actually know what honestly happens in their mind... just so I can be satiated.

Logical & smart in so many ways, right?

Oh wait... perhaps your dick said you wanted breath play...

Lets take an essential bodily need, and fuck with it.... next comes starvation & dehydration play...

Or perhaps your brain connected earlier... much earlier.

Most boys I have played with who are in to diapers I have asked the same question of... not judgmental, but an honest attempt to find out why we like this kink.

Like all kinks, there is no defining trait, no socioeconomic tie that says "Person x will crave diapers sexually"

What I have found however is a very common tie. Many cubs are boys who really didn't get to experience those first 10 years in full, as a kid, due to asshole adults fucking up their childhood.

Yup... no seriously, really.

So please remember, while you hate on another's kink, which to anyone reading this, would be someone who walked their own path of self acceptance... Please understand. I realize that some kink concepts are hard to deal with, and as we get in to the more taboo bodily fluids, we are predisposed to cringe at them. Trust me, I was a pathology assistant for years. first time I cut in to a human body, *Bam* out like a light. lol, thank god I didn't fall on the scalpel =P

But we need to realize that the psychology of kink is a multifaceted one.

Take a look at furry for example. From my perspective, furry is a sexual community that has a few sticks in the mud. From Kage's perspective I'm sure it the absolute opposite. Yet not a single one of us can explain the actual mental pathing to the why, and we all know at its heart its supper silly.

So why do we do this? Why would someone who would get hard peeing on a boy in full rubber hate on a boy that wants to piss on himself in a diaper? why would we want to ever push someone who should be an accepted member of our community to the point they would want to take their own life rather than live with who they really are?

Why?

I guess high school never does fucking end does it?

With That, Visiting Time Is Over.

What Ever You Do Don't Scream Too Loud As Others Are Trying To Sleep.

 ~Rubberasylum

Drama... My God the drama....

My Fellow Inmates,

Guess Whos Back,...
Back again...
Asylums back....
Tell a friend...
Guess whos back,
Guess whos back,
Guess whos back,
Guess whos back....

Awawahwohwahwhowahwhowahwhowah...

I created a monster
Cause Nobody wants to see Dan anymore
They want Asylum
I'm Chopped Liver....

Hi kids, did you miss me? What has uncle Asylum been up to in the last few years?

Holy ever loving fucking shit!!!!

....and that about sums that clusterfuck up... as we move on in to futureworld I welcome you to pat those on the head that say awful things about me, and thank them for rounding out my reputation. Ohhhh.... what a scary bad man I am.... Did you believe it?

So, on to our subject du jour: "Drama"

Drama is a problem, and it is the heart of the problem with the Kink & Furry communities.

We are too close...too interconnected....

I mean really....

So lets say someone peed on my carpet... lets call this someone "Fucktardpaws". Ok, So Fucktardpaws soiled my adored carpet with his dog juices. So I'm now mad at Fucktardpaws, because....well god dammit that was a nice carpet... I mean you had to see it.... and now it smells like Gary Busey...

Sigh...

But I digress...

No matter whatever the fuck happened between me and Gary Bu... uh... Fucktardpaws, well, frankly sweetie, its none of your fucking business...

Or thats how it should be, right?

However

In the kink cultures we have a tenancy to cling close to others like us. We hear all, we see all, we devour all. Our peers lives our ours... and we like to talk.... oh, man, does the kingdom of the kink hens love to talk...

lol

I was telling a friend the other day how Drama is so much more entertaining when you are watching it from the outside. Unfortunately between my experimental period with Amphetamines and my really burning want to be skinny,,, well, I guess I kind of got away from myself in a drug fueled blur...

Hoo daddy was I a drama magnet...

Well no fucking more. Look, love me or hate me there are just way too many of you. No longer can I be as open as I used to, and this is just a fact of life. Lets face it kids, to continue to do what I do, I have to close down a bit. I got a few Stalkers that keep my focus. Hell, one even asked my ex for my cell phone number. I cant say that made me feel all warm and squishy. Lol!

But once again, back to drama...

Drama is not central to just furry, or AB, or Rubber, or leather... Drama is a problem in all of our communities

God why do I get a mental image of Sarah MacLachlan & that fucking "Arms of the angel" right at this moment?

Its a fair issue if you think about it. As humans we all fear those who are unlike us. Sorry to boil down the race, creed, sex, sexual orientation issue in to such simple terms, but a gay man who has to not only have to come to terms with furry, and then kink, and then a multitude of sub-genres of such calling a babyfur "Gross"... can anyone seriously make heads or tails of this stuff?

We have a lot of exploration left to do here, kids, so I'm back...

And this time I'm hoping I'm back to fucking stay.

But for now we need sleep. So until next time...

With That, Visiting Time Is Over.

What Ever You Do Don't Scream Too Loud As Others Are Trying To Sleep.

 ~Rubberasylum

Rubberasylum.net is now launched.

My fellow inmates,

We have now launched, please update all links to Rubberasylum.net

You shall be redirected now :)

With that visiting time is over

Whatever you do, don't scream too loud as others are trying to sleep.

~Rubberasylum