If you dont follow @Rubberasylum on twitter, you should... no, this is not just to fuel the Asylum's ego... and really please don't, the doorframes in this house are wide enough already... No, the point is if you dont follow us here is some of the daily randomness of postings you have missed:
Beyond all of this, Plan on seeing new updates to the site as I get time, a bit of a change in the design and how the stories are navigated. New pictures, and hopefully a more comprehensive video page and links...
A Big Thank you to everyone for the 120,000 views, 60,000 of them are since January. As always, there is much much much more to cum...
With That, Visiting Time Is Over.
What Ever You Do Don't Scream Too Loud As Others Are Trying To Sleep.
The Following Comic was shared with me by a reader who commented on yesterday's post... I think its poignant to yesterday's point, and besides its funny as well...
So Then I was also asked "Wait, has your blog gone Furry?"
No, I think you've missed the point here. Sexuality is painted in more than shades of grey. The Asylum is a kink friendly zone and we are happy to welcome anyone no matter their kink.
"Oh, so you mean you will play with a..."
No. Let's be realistic here. What gets me going is what gets me going. I will no more get turned on by a dirty diaper as I would by a boy who came over and just wanted to be tied up and didn't want me to touch him cause he was straight (It has been requested), but for a portion of our population this is a thrill.
The point is there is nothing wrong with it, and I am not going to cease from talking about it because that thrill may not be mine, and I am not going to judge it just because I may not understand.
The Asylum blog is about Sexuality. My sexuality... your sexuality...
..And although I would love to talk non stop about myself... (Runs a comb through his perfectly manicured hair and flashes an award winning smile that sparkles at the edges) ... One cant be the center of attention if the attention is being focused elsewhere.
I received a great message that said "I cant tell if you are actually stuck up or not; damn, you are hard to read."
I replied back simply "Thank You"
We are chocolate because our bodies are wired differently. Take away the catalyst to the feelings, be it a tightly laced on hood or flaming shaved goat, and we are all chasing the same things, the same emotions, that warm feeling in the pit of our stomachs...
Comfort, safety, love, understanding, the ability to let go in to the grips of our own needs in the hands of someone that will never judge us for being who we desire to be... To be who we actually are... even only if for those fleeting moments in time in the privacy of a darkened room.
I started out in rubber bondage, discovered leather and S&M, then discovered my own interests in furry... Every day my sexuality is allowed to grow as I like to be open minded. New pleasures, new interests, new fun.
This is what the Asylum is about. We are not alone, and with resources available on the Internet none of us should ever have to feel that way again. Sounds like Soddom & Gemorah doesn't it? I don't know, can you fuck a salt block? =)
With That, Visiting Time Is Over.
What Ever You Do Don't Scream Too Loud As Others Are Trying To Sleep.
This weekend I opened a Fur Affinity account: http://www.furaffinity.net/user/asylumcat/ , and I have been posting pictures well within the TOS of the site, that has just got some of these little fuzzies diapers all in a bunch. Its quite fun actually :-)
You see, it seems that in the sometimes awkward world of fur, many these poor things are terrified to be who they are. Or admit it. One of the greatest reactions to a picture so far was of Rottie at Seattle Pride:
This caused a hooplah about public wear of gear... some of the best comments so far:
They Let You Wear That In Public?
-Uh, yeah... and THEY who?
HIDE THE KIDS.
-Ok, so you brought the kids to a gay pride celebration and a guy in a wetsuit is the issue here? Did you notice the 300 pound naked man that just walked past your little darling? If someone wearing a wetsuit is going to traumatise the little tykes I would rcomend never taking them to the beach.
Fursuits and Wetsuits are both goofy, but Fursuits are more fun than erotic.
-Wetsuits are Erotic because you eroticize them. I think fursuits are erotic. In my mind there is no difference, Should you then not be allowed to wear your fursuit in public? Rottie was preforming in his wetsuit and hood. People were wanting non stop photographs with us...
Remember, the keyword is PRIDE. Proud for who you are, not who people want you to be. The cops even stopped rottie for how he was dressed, as they wanted to touch him... ask him where he got the pup hood.
This is Seattle, they love their fags here, actually protect us from harassment. What a novel idea...
A world where one is allowed to be who they are inside, either rubber, leather or fursuit... sounds great to me...
And besides, its a material, at what point is it wrong to create clothes out of a material? Plastic too far? how bout Hemp? Vinyl? Cotton? People eroticize anything, don't hate cause your embarrassed to be turned on.
Once again, and yes I have said this before, Life is short, very. The youngons will get this as they get older. Hiding behind fear is a useless waste of time, but we as humans are good at it.
"Oh my god, but you cant do that to a fursuit! Real suiters dont do things like that!" Uh, yeah right... I hate to tell you how many "Popufurs" have been tied up here... and just asked that those pictures not be shown for the sake of their reputations.
To these DNH people... never carry a blacklight to a con... you will never hug again :)
